It'sOkay to Talk
Itsokay posted an update Oct 28, 2020 12:54 am
Situations that give in to the power of someone’s character is only personified from the lack of setting a standard for your own personal comfort and rightful need for others respect.
The lack of this important standard for yourself should be a dedicated line you draw in the sand that no one should cross.The deception in some of these situations can be so subtle that over time can unknowingly create a silence in a man’s heart without even knowing his voice was stifled.
On many certain things especially for us guys who have hearts is that we throw away the simplest but most powerful tool and that is “REASON” a reason to ask questions, a reason to express, a reason to silently ponder about what is needed for growth, these certain things that grew from being unnoticeable to being in the forefront of everything that falls from your tongue or the actions that get absorbed through your eyes from some of the events that have left you speechless.
For love can be like set of blinders bringing you a one point view of what’s in front of your life but remember that the most powerful insight to your future and your well-being comes from the peripheral vision that your heart tries to see with,
It goes far beyond the site of the blinders hindering you from disengaging from the temporary gratification that were gifted from a habit that has turned chaoticness and confusion into a acceptable plan “B” and that only brings upon a task in trying to foolishly convince yourself that you’re in a position wich allows you to feel misleadingly safer.
Sometimes knowing what’s around the corner even if it’s good or bad is less frightful then to awaken in real life, now is the time to climb out of this rut and discover your desire of venturing into the unknown.
The rut sometimes we are stuck in is a place of complacent routine that we know we should break free from,but see the circle only brings you back to the same problem and that is a task witch is nothing but an attempt at fruitless searcing and the expectancy of some sort of comfort.
Even though we are well aware of what the circle has around the corner because it’s an endless cycle and can turn into a stagnant comfortability that I know all too well.
It can sometimes feel better than clearing the brush and creating a new path that can hopefully with a finalization that can be washed out of your mouth. Become autonomous and you will realize the definition of this word and noticed that it has an exit sign hanging from it that allows you to be content at simply being happy at zero.
This newly found confidence will bring upon a change that will allow you to recognize that anything added or taken away from the already self contained understanding that you were already perfect without anybody else trying to convince you it’s better with them then being by yourself!
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